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What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

  • 1.  What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-03-2023 04:42

    I would say-

    1. Make as many friends as you can and try to build some traditions with them
    2. Find and stick to two hobbies at least- one which requires a lot of physical effort such as running, and the other which you can do indoors and brings you peace such as gardening
    3. Start learning a foreign language 

    What would you say?



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    Mrimon "Nemo" Guha
    UC Davis
    San Francisco CA
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  • 2.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-03-2023 10:19

    Interesting question! I would say -

    Be more confident on the decisions I make and don't let other people decide for myself. 



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    Shannon (Xiaonan) Shang
    Manager, Data Analytics
    Enovation Controls
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  • 3.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-03-2023 16:46

    Don't be concerned with what others may say.  Be yourself.

    Work hard - but learn to save.  Take care of the nickels and dimes, and the dollars will take care of themselves.



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    Keith Willoughby
    Professor
    University of Saskatchewan
    Saskatoon SK
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  • 4.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-03-2023 22:34

    I would say (though I doubt a 13-year-old would understand): 

    Don't take down fences that were put up by a traditional generation. Fences exist to protect us from a risk previously identified by an ancient source even when it is hard for us to understand in the present.



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    Alberto Aparicio
    Data Analyst
    Charitable Adult Rides & Services, Inc.
    San Diego
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  • 5.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-06-2023 06:00

    I am going to remember this. Loved it.



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    Mrimon "Nemo" Guha
    UC Davis
    San Francisco CA
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  • 6.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-04-2023 09:13

    Do what you love.  And learn to love what you do.  Both will make you happy give you purpose and a reason to jump into the next challenge.



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    Duncan Klett
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  • 7.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-08-2023 07:50

    I would like to pass along one more piece of advice, from my mother:

    Any job worth doing is worth doing well!

    Note, this does not say "perfectly" but more along the lines of the best you can do in the particular circumstances.  Doing a job well also adds to your personal satisfaction and your to your self-image.



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    Duncan Klett
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  • 8.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-09-2023 02:22

    How lovely! I think this might be one of the best pieces of advice I have ever come across.



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    Mrimon "Nemo" Guha
    UC Davis
    San Francisco CA
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  • 9.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-11-2023 02:44

    Be careful of people who tell you not to do something when they have not experienced it themselves. 

    Before my first international assignment (Zimbabwe and the Ghana), for years,  I was told by many people, especially family and friends, not to go because it was too dangerous, very dirty and poor, or I would catch an incurable disease. Then I realized people were giving me advice on something they have only seen on US televisions. This was in 2002.  After that trip, I realized I wanted to live overseas. I have worked in about 30 low to middle income countries, and since 2021, I have been working in living in South Africa. I have loved every country where I have worked and could possible live in them. The work is wonderful, the people are very hospitable, and every country has its own beauty. I could have enjoyed my life much more  sooner is I had not listed to people with no experience and were biases only by the US media that has always portrayed Africa and Asia as wastelands. 



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    Michael Washington, PhD
    Industrial Engineer/Epidemiologist
    US Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
    Pretoria, South Africa
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  • 10.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-11-2023 09:54

    I agree! 

    Nowadays with vlog, social media being popular, I feel that kind of bias is getting less but still pretty strong within people I know. 

    I tried to tell people how my hometown, or the countries I've been to are like, but of course it's hard for people who never been there to understand. Instead, I started telling people to explore the world themselves and the world will be different. Soon I have friends travelling to different countries and sharing the travel stories with me. Love love the stories and experience. 

    Same reason that I love travelling. There are always things that I don't know until I'm really there and there are always experience that cannot be described with words. 



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    Shannon (Xiaonan) Shang
    Manager, Data Analytics
    Enovation Controls
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  • 11.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-09-2023 15:44

    The winning powerball numbers for tomorrow night are ...

    Also, maybe something about believe in yourself and be comfortable with who you are.  But definitely the powerball thing first....



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    Matthew Ferguson
    Senior Operations Research Analyst
    United States Army Human Resources Command
    Elizabethtown KY
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  • 12.  RE: What would you tell your 13 year old self if you could travel back in time?

    Posted 11-10-2023 09:56

    Matthew Ferguson made my day with his answer: 

    >  The winning powerball numbers for tomorrow night are ...



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    -Irv Lustig
    Optimization Principal
    Princeton Consultants
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